The Vagabond Saga

A Journey Through Life To Understand Happiness

My Body The Car October 16, 2009

My body is my car

The vehicle that the world invented

I have continually mended and dented

Entwined and possessed within— like a curse

Bound to its temporal mortality or worse

Faith encourages us not to panic

Science wants to send us to a quantum mechanic

—      Where those with extra smart-icles

See us as just potentiality and particles

Others want to call in the manufacturer’s warranty

Let “Him” with a capital “He”

Give assurance and guarantee

But “He” never writes back to our correspondence

And with waiting comes despondence

Without a CEO to be our judge

To prove some sort of what is and what was

We must rely on the observation of cause and effect

Karmic understanding to mitigate ethical aspect

In the end, regardless of what we have tried

Punishments threatened or implied

We are good and bad based solely on our own volition

Our actions determine our condition

And whatever we may admit

We are all interconnected bit to bit

And no matter how we define what the world “is”

Our goal is to realize blameless bliss

Before we all eventually croak

Our temporary flame left to residual smoke

Most that should recognize our life is short—  don’t

Even those can cognize it— won’t

So our habits we should always be testing

While moving or while resting

What a glorious endeavor!

To give up being so clever

See the universe so clear

When we brush away the clouds of fear

See the truth that everyone’s a corpse

Terminally ill by all reports

No matter how hard each doctor has tried

Eventually all of their patients have died

My body is my car

The vehicle that the world invented

But what was forgot to mention

Is that it is rented.

 

Happiness is Mind-made August 25, 2009

Manopubbagamā dhammā, manoseṭṭhā manomayā
Manasā ce pasannena, bhāsati vā karoti vā
Tato na sukhamanveti, chāyā’va anapāyinī.
                                                                      
~Yamaka Vagga

 Mind is the forerunner of (all good) states.
Mind is the chief, and they are mind-made.
If one speaks or acts with a pure mind,
happiness follows as one’s own shadow that never leaves.
                                                ~Dhammapada

The Miser Maṭṭhakuṇḍalī

A son was on the verge of death because his miserly father refusing to call a doctor and attempting to treat the illness himself. The Buddha knowing of the dying boy went to the house for alms and when the boy saw the Buddha found liberation before his death.

The grieving father went to the boy’s grave every day until he met a person who claimed to be a deity who needed two wheels for his chariot.

“Bring back my boy,” the father said, “and I will buy you whatever wheels you wish.”

“The wheels I desire are the sun and the moon,” said the deity.

Unable to obtain the sun and the moon the father’s head lowered below his shoulders in sorrow.

“Foolish man,” the deity snipped. “You cry for long for your dead son, but at least I can see the sun and the moon.”

The father recognized the voice ad understood that his son had been reborn into a celestial realm after his liberation with the Buddha.

 Mind is the Chief

The story of Matthakundali is an interesting story to have drawn this verse of the Dhammapada from. The father and son do not seem to be great examples of finding happiness. Nevertheless, if we look at our own lives, don’t we see the same issues of happiness always being the tasty mushrooms that grow from the feces that continually presents itself?

 The son was suffering, but before his death was able to experience a profound moment of his life after meeting the Buddha. It was a single moment of such great quality that it changed his life—no matter how short that life was. How much of our lives is spend wandering and meandering? Do we really see quality in those days, months and years? Or instead do we find the small moments in our life that bring real meaning and purpose to be the seconds of true understanding of what it means to be happy?

 It is better to live one day of honest happiness than a hundred years of dullness and discontentment. The story of the son is one that explains that it is the quality of our lives and not the quantity that matters. So as the child’s mind found a taste of enlightenment so did the resulting benefits of a positive rebirth.

 Even if we do not believe in the concepts of rebirth or celestial realms, it is a good lesson to everyone: We must be the creators of our own bliss regardless of the situations we are in.

 Happiness Follows

The story of Matthakundali is also about how the mind is the creator of all misery as well. Matthakundali spent more energy concentrating on the wealth in his pockets than the wealth in his mind and heart. His craving for money cost him his son’s life. His craving for his lost son was costing him his own life.

 At the center of each suffering was his own mind. As the “deity” states, “at least I can see the sun and moon” we should understand that at least the craving for those things that are nearly impossible to possess are more reasonable than to crave for those things that do not exist at all.

 How much of our lives is spent indulging the hollow joys of wanting? We cling to the craving of unrequited love, lost objects, youth gone, etc. The pain of cravings has a kind of pleasure to it, because we have the pleasure of conceit and the joy of “what if.”

 The conceit is not always about feeling superior to others. Conceit is the indulgence of our ego to think that we are special. “Oh look at how wonderful I am! I am at least better than you.” That is certainly a type of conceit where we set ourselves a status above others—either by elevating ourselves or tearing down someone else.

 Look at any playground in elementary school, and see how many children tease and taunt others to knock them down and establish a social hierarchy.

 Another type of deceit is “Oh woe is me. I will never be as good as you.” Victimhood is just as ego driven as snobbery. It feels as good too, because it makes us feel special—even if it is special looser.

 Look at how many teenage conversations revolve around, “I can’t do it. I am not like her. No one likes me” and you can see how the ego indulges self-destructive enjoyment just to feel different and special.

 The most destructive behavior to happiness, however, is more than likely the joy of “what if” or “only if.” Everyone has found pleasure in this type of craving. “What if I won the lotto?” or “Only if I was more in shape.”

 This type of craving puts our belief in happiness squarely on the responsibility of some external condition: money, objects, people, and life conditions.

 The Buddha stated, “I teach only the understanding of suffering and the end of suffering.” It is not surprising that a story lesson about happiness would then start with suffering. Matthakundali, and those reading the story, had to comprehend the nature of his suffering in order to see how he could reorient his mind towards a path of happiness.

 Matthakundali understood by the end of the story, that while he loved his son, he had to let go of his own conceit that was letting him indulge in the guilt over his son’s death. His love for him was not dependent on his continual self-punishment.

 Matthakundali also had to understand that his desire to have his son was unreasonable and impossible. It was a “what if” fantasy that was bringing more craving and suffering to him.

 The Path to Happiness

We all experience moments of grief, loss, and regret. It is natural. What is important is that we do not continue to let it fester, like a man who continually pulls at the stitch of a mended wound.

 Life is impermanent, and we should embrace the fact that our lives are limited making each moment we have in the world extremely precious. So we must refocus our energy to using our time wisely and putting value where it is most useful to our real happiness.

 

Qoutes from the Vagabond pt 2 August 5, 2009

When asked, “How many times do you forgive before it is enough?” I answer “always one more time.”
When asked, “How many times should you turn the other cheek?”
I answer, “Hit me, and I will forgive– but from a safe distance.”
When asked, “How many times should I be taken advantage of?”
I answer, “No one can defraud you from what you offer freely.”

Why can’t love be like a cat? Each morning greeted with a stretch and playful scratch. A surprise purr as it curls up in the lap. Fiercely independent but insatiable in its desire. Slip into slumber with that sleek sinewy frame curled up beside, two impish eyes almost closed and playful little bite.
“Meow”

Happiness can not be found by searching, but revealed by lifting the barriers we have placed in front of us.

A mouth may speak wisdom, but only through meditation can the body understand it.

Observe as a witness with no agenda and you will realizes that what you see depends on HOW you look.

At the touch of love everyone becomes a poet. Unfortunately, I became an artist first and therefore have only ever found the love of words to touch me. Art has become the jealous mistress that has worn me to tatters until I became unsuitable to suitors.

Lust is like salt given to a thirsty man.

If you want others to be happy practice compassion, if you want to be happy practice patience.

Lusts are never satiated. Feed the beast and grow its hunger like a wildfire. Lusts are only quenched cooling the senses with mindfulness, dowsing the licking flames with stillness, and removing the ember coals from temptation.

When things turn cold, warm everyone with the burning compassion of your heart; when things get hot, drop the temperature with a cool head.

Only by learning how to love yourself can the world know how to love you.

The world engulfed in sanguine and ochre flame of Septembers; zephyrs that swat and shake; Until liberation gently dances Down into the significance of crunchy blankets For children and rakish dads, like Apollo Distant and withdrawing Relenting custody of his warmth To a tepid and distant gaze Fervent panting observed creates Exhaust against the bitter bite Of “alone”

“Hourglass” There is a time, playful and free the worlds solid and absolute ages 3 to 33 Then you feel that September ice in the viens the slow aging climb, footing less sure on pebbled lanes Things take more time when most is gone Sandy paths harder to trudge along Throats dry along the dusty path tongue wets the lips as if its the last There is a time from first to last to cherish the moment for it won’t last.

It’s so simple to be wise. Just think of something of what you want to say, then contemplate if it the words communicate your brilliance adequately, then write them down and let them sit for a day so you can see them with fresh eyes, then be a critical editor and tear it apart and start over. When you are sure that your words completely convey your message– smile and say nothing.

 

Buy on Apples, Sell on Cheese July 29, 2009

Whoever lives contemplating pleasant things, with senses unrestrained, in food immoderate, indolent, inactive, him verily Mara overthrows, as the wind (overthrows) a weak tree.

Whoever lives contemplating “the Impurities”, with senses restrained, in food moderate, full of faith, full of sustained energy, him Mara overthrows not, as the wind (does not overthrow) a rocky mountain. ~Dhammapada

If you ask a wine expert how to test a wine, they will tell you to first eat a bit of apple. The acid in the apple will reveal the flaws in a wine. Ask a wine expert how to sell a wine, they will tell you to always serve wine with cheese, which always compliments pulls the flavor of wine. The proverb, “buy on apples, sell on cheese” shows the importance of context in all experience.

In Buddhism, context is the foundation.  When we think of the three poisons—aversion, craving, and ignorance (often cited as hate, greed and delusion)—we can see how context is the key factor to the relationships we have with the world around us.

EXAMPLE “A”: Employee Susan, who avoids her boss, may have a relationship that is terrifying to her. The boss may always be overly critical and rude. Facing the problem may create a worse work environment for her or even risk being fired. So instead she walks up the stairs to avoid being caught in an elevator with him. Her palms sweat when his name comes up on caller ID. She hides in her office during lunch. She avoids her boss at all costs and each time she meets with her boss she puts one more brick in the foundation of this fear.

EXAMPLE “B”: As the door opens and reveals his blind date, John’s eyes open and smile widens. His anxiety is replaced with excitement as he sees a very attractive woman. Throughout the night, his date proves that she is an inconsiderate rude person, but as long as she keeps smiling at him, he just ignores similar behavior that Susan’s boss displays. John’s sensual lust for the woman draws him to her and is more than willing to ignore grossly obvious incompatibilities between the both of them. Months later, when they break up, John ask himself, “what did I see in her?”

EXAMPLE “C”: Alex was walking down the path to his campground. All of a sudden, he froze in his tracks. His hair stood up on the back of his neck. As he scanned the ground in the moonlight he saw what caused him alarm: a very large snake poised ready to strike. Alex’s heart raced as he tried to think of ways to escape. Pain stung his chest, like a dagger, and he fell over dead. The next morning the other campers found him laying on the ground next to a bit of rope slightly uncoiled.

While these examples are obvious, they demonstrate how our experience with the world is effected as much by our perception, our relationships and our awareness of what is going on around us JUST as much as what is actually occurring. We all too often have an experience and react to it emotionally with no awareness of our responsibility and culpability to that experience. When blood boils after someone cuts us off on the highway, we instantly blame the other driver and his reckless actions.

An aware mind would see that more awareness of the road would have seen the actions of the other driver. An aware mind would recognize that the other driver poor driving is not a personal attack on you. An aware mind would realize that one more car in front of you will have no true effect in the time your trip will take. An aware mind would see the triggers of ego clicking, the arising of emotion through ignorance, conceit and rationalization; and quench the flames with loving kindness. In other words, putting in context, the events of a person cutting you off in the highway will avoid the anger that seems such a normal response. Conditioning the mind to reorient is a viewpoint shifts the context of all relationships. And this is what the Buddha taught.

Buddhism may be physically painful when meditating on the mat – the legs fall asleep, the back aches, the nose itches— however; it sharpens the mind to the moment, and gives opportunity to broaden the mind. What are our relationships with the world around us? Is this pain in the knee really as unbearable as it seems initially, or am I just so used to avoiding pain that I instantly shift and move at the slightest discomfort? Are the noises around me truly disrupting my practice or is my desire for tranquility so profound that any imperfection leads to mental suffering? Am I really the person I believe I am, or have I been conditioned so sincerely that I am brainwashed to think that my reactions to the world are inherent to my nature?

Investigating these qualities in meditation is the first step in understanding how we add context to the world around us: How we “eat apples” when we want to be critical and “eat cheese” when we want the world to seem more pleasant. Never investigating our direct unadulterated experience with the wine (aka “life”), we never educate ourselves to its full experience.

Without removing the context created by our conditioning, we have no true understanding of the world around us. We will forever be avoiding people, judging them 2 dimensionally, lusting for Ms. Wrong,; and making judgments in life based on delusional and ignorant information.  It is in this slumbering twilight that most of us live in called samsara. The Buddha (which means “awakened one”) was able to shine the light of clear understanding and wisdom so that we all brush the sleep from our eyes and see that we are the owners of our misery, because we spend more time drinking from life’s cup with opinion rather than compassion.

 

“Hourglass” July 14, 2009

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There is a time, playful and free
The world’s solid and absolute ages 3 to 33
Then you feel that September ice
In the viens; the slow aging climb,
Footing less sure on pebbled lanes
Things take more time when most is gone
Sandy paths harder to trudge along
Throats dry along the dusty path tongue wets the lips as if its the last
There is a time from first to last to cherish the moment for it won’t last.

 

Empty Nature May 19, 2009

I read a lot of people speak of empty nature, but I think that it needs to be explained clearly and concisely.

Empty nature (Sunnatta or Sunyata) does not mean “nothing nature” where nothing exists, but “no permanent nature” (Svabaava or Svabhāva). Things do exists. There are elements of matter and they collect into aggregate forms which we interact with.

Understanding empty nature is understanding that we are all like sandcastles. We are formed and appear to be an object, real and definable. The reality is that we are still just sand. We are still just part of the beach. We are all interconnected and impermanent: subject to atrophy and erosion back into the universe to be formed again. The moisture that holds us together evaporates and becomes the ocean again. Nothing of the sandcastle remains and yet new sandcastles arise and fade away again. We cannot find the sandcastles that have passed nor can we expect the creations of the future. Thus the form we see and define as a sandcastle isn’t truly able to be defined. It is in a continue process of creation and destruction, it came from nowhere and returns to nowhere. It has no “castle nature” but it is empty.

This is what we call the realization of “conditioned reality.” That the sandcastle itself is not permanent. The definition is created by us, because a fish certainly would not call it a sandcastle, a bird would not, a child who has never seen a castle would not. Its very existence as a castle is constructed in our minds just as a child forms the shapes in a bucket with sand and water.

Through the practice of Buddhism, we can see the truth of this. We can then engage in the world with an unconditioned nature. We can make judgments of our actions without attachment to that which is not permanent or conditioned for response. We can accept the world as it is, and be in the moment.

 

Quotes by the Vagabond May 16, 2009

The world is a beach, where we create ourselves, our sandcastles, our realities. We forget that it is all just sand. We ignore that we will return the beach. Our matter will be returned and reused. Our identities evaporated into the air. Be joyful for the time we have by being mindful of this.

Embrace the impermanent nature of all things, when we engage with the world wholeheartedly. More precious is our time spent with our children when we are always aware how quickly childhood is over. Embracing impermanence, we are more willing to forgive, to embrace, to enjoy our mate in the short time we have to share.

Because life is so linked to desire, we must use that energy toward something positive. We must offer love with a sense of urgency, offer compassion with a sense of importance, joy with a sense of abundance. This is how we transform ourselves from clinging to impermanence to the giving of the moment.

Deal with the issues within ourselves in a time of stress first: find peace “within” even when it may not resolve the troubles “without.” See clearly that feelings, ideations, worries, etc. not caused by external events but ourselves. Clearing external obstacles, we remove our object troubles like mighty wind gust pushing a branch off of the road, but we have not swept away the obstacle within to move forward.

True suffering starts with the phrase “what if.” What if I had. What if I didn’t have. What if this person did this. What if … Meditate and find the bliss of being present. Learn to replace the indulgence of “what ifs” with the accepting calm of “what is.”

Happiness does not come from trying to end of suffering, but accept it. Be with suffering, embrace discontentment, be with the moment as it is. This is the foundation for blameless bliss and joyful equanimity.

Feeling is a grasping for a thought.

There is no cure to sickness. There is only an understanding how to stay off death for another day. Nothing puts a stopper in the hourglass. Nothing stops the sands slipping into the below, seeming to fall faster and faster the closer the last grain is destined to fall.

Information does not equal knowledge. Information is brick and boards. Learning is creating structure to build knowledge. If nothing has changed, then nothing is learned.

Getting is rarely as satisfying as desiring, and always followed by suffering.

Of all the passions, lust is the more powerful. We are never punished for our lust, but by it. It leads us into heedlessness, poor choices, and regret. Every moment spent in the throws of passion equals endless hours in fantasy, daydream, plotting, planning, begging and executing in preparation. How much more productive would be be without lust?

When we have anxiety, stress, emotional pain– they are experiences we invited in with open arms like a Trojan Horse. When there is no enemy within, the enemies outside cannot hurt you.

The origin of “religion” means “to bind fast to. This is why religion never brings happiness. Religion needs faith. It binds its faith to dogma. Faith without religion is confidence. It is liberation and freedom. It is accepting the universe without delusion, greed or hate.

We can only care for what we notice. We can only notice when we have attention. We can only have attention when we open our eyes and our heart.

“There are only three distractions to happiness: aversion, wanting, ignorance. When you want, when you avoid, when you do not know for certain— we must investigate these responses. All that we want is not perfect. All that we avoid is not bad. All that we do not know is unknown to us.”

 

Greeting with our heart May 16, 2009

by Pemarathana Soorakkulame

Extending greetings to each other and the strong impulse to do so, is innate in the human person and it takes a variety of cultural forms and modes of speech.

“Good morning”, “How are you doing?”, “Have a good one”, these are a few examples of greetings that we exchange daily with people we meet. We can find such greetings in any language. “Buenos días” (Spanish),“Bonjour” (French), “Ohayo Gozaimaz” (Japanese) are some of them. These are really polite and nice phrases. If we examine them closely, they convey mutually understood meanings. They certainly carry wishes for the well being of others. However, the question is whether we really mean what we say when we greet. We greet a variety of people from close friends to people we meet casually.

Today greeting has become a mere customary habit. We may well sound like parrots mechanically and repeatedly saying things. Those nice phrases slip through our lips, most of the time, without our conscious feeling. From a Buddhist perspective, these greetings are valuable opportunities for us to practice loving kindness (Metta), a quality the Buddha repeatedly extolled. If we can really wish well being to everyone we meet in a day, how much positively we would develop our spiritualism within ourselves?

We should start our day with a pleasant wish of loving kindness for all the beings as the very first thing we do when we get up. Early in the morning when our mind is still delicate, we should calm down and with deep felt sincerity say, ”May this day be a good day for me and for all other beings”. We should leave home for work with these positive thoughts. Then the instances of greeting other people will be verbal expressions of the wishes we made at the beginning of the day. All greetings of the day will be the parts of our Dhamma practice, and not mere mechanical, superficial, formal expressions.

Honest and wholehearted wishes of loving kindness are greater than many other good actions we perform daily. Because, it is the underlined mental quality that decides the greatness of what we do, be they important or trivial. Even an act of charity unless it is based on wholehearted loving kindness is not greater than an honest wish.

The Buddha says,

If someone were to give away a hundred of food dishes as charity in the morning, a hundred at noon, and a hundred in the evening and if someone else were to develop a mind of loving kindness (honest and wholehearted) even for a the time it takes to pull a cow’s udder, either in the morning, at noon, or in the evening, this would be more fruitful than the former. (Ukkha Sutta, SN)

There is a real qualitative difference between a parrot like greeting and actual greeting emanating from the depths of our true being. When we greet with our heart, we sound differently. Our facial expression, voice and rhythm will express our actual greeting. Such greetings reach people’s hearts. Sometimes, a single greeting can make someone’s day.

I remember once when I was traveling in a public bus in Singapore, the driver made everyone in the bus happy. He honestly wished good morning to everybody getting into the bus. We all could feel that his greetings were real. When passengers heard his actual greetings, they all became pleasant and smiled back to him. I was thinking how nice it was to be such a bus driver which would give me an opportunity to truly wish a good day to many people I met that day. It is a fine example of deeply felt loving kindness. We will also meet many people in a day in different places. We will turn such opportunities to greet others to practice loving kindness. When you greet someone next time, mean what you say. You will make your day as well as the day of many others a really good one. The Buddha also said that it is with our thoughts that we make the world.

Ven. S. Pemaratane.

 

Dealing with Anger May 16, 2009

Vagabond,

This topic is anger and abandonment. I was very angry at my partner and said very hurtful things, even though I thought I had calmed down. I did not stop to monitor the tension in my neck and face, as I should.

I am going to counseling and it was mentioned there that given my background, feelings of abandonment may be seeded in me and arising during an incident. I am wondering what you think about anger and abandonment.

For me following buddhadharma, what might I read from the dharma to help me on this?

Thanks, friends in the dharma,

Susan P.

Susan,

If I may offer, you still see your feelings as a part of you. They are not. Thought is one of the six senses. Just like you cannot remove the sensation of the wind on your skin, you can not control or ignore the thoughts that arise in your head. What you can do is change how you relate to those sensations.

When you have a moment of anger, take time to investigate them. What were the triggers that brought the arising of those feelings? What were the events that created your feelings of craving, aversion or ignorance?

If you feel a breeze, do you like it or not like it? It is just the breeze. You have assigned a value to it. If you like it, you crave more. If you find it distracting or unpleasant, you create a feeling of aversion. The same is true with people and thoughts.

By investigating these emotions and what brings about your relationships to them, you will will peel back the layers like an onion. As you go deeper, you will see that many of these relationships to people and emotions are conditions like habits. As you pull back more layers you will see that these habits were created by cravigns and aversions that you had at a previous time, and each time these situations arose instead of detaching your cravings, you added more (like a pearl is created by constant adding to a pebble of sand). When you remove the layers, you will find that the final sand pebble is your own sense of ego or sense of “I” and what you value as expectations for that ego.

Eventually, we must recognize that the “I” is an illusion. We are only formed in our aggregates for a short period of time. All name and form is as well. With all things impermanent, we can see that many of our concepts are wrongly created with a sense of expectation– a sense that the world is permanent and things SHOULD work a certain way, instead of recognizing that all things are as they are and should be accepted JUST AS THEY ARE.

With this wisdom we can relate to them properly. We can assign true value to them. Relationships are not static. People are not static. The universe is not static. It is all process and constantly changing. All things arise and fade. All things unfold as they do and not as they are wished to be.

This is the seed the grows metta, loving kindness or unconditional acceptance. With metta we see the world differently. We accept and relate to the world wisely. We no longer crave, but we also no longer avert ourselves. We no longer hate or blame or cling. The tempest of emotion and suffering becomes calm like a pool on a windless day.

This is why meditation daily is so important. It gives us the tools to see the world wisely. It allows us to engage with the universe correctly. It allows us to find an inner happiness that does not come from external pleasures (which include joy as well as pain).

Meditation what you should do, because the book you should be reading and comprehending is yourself. That is where the true Buddhadarma resides.

 

The Nature of Delusion (Avijja) April 23, 2009

 

A magician pulls out a bit of rope and cuts in half. He ties the two pieces of rope together and pulls the knot taught. Then he puts a hand over the knot and incants the magic words and “voila” the rope is whole again. The audience is in awe. They know the laws of the universe makes what happen impossible, and yet it just happened. Everyone is delighted because what we know and what has happened to not match: which is true?

 

The reality is that through a series of rehearsed moves the rope only appears to be cut in the middle. It is really cut at the end of the rope, the knot is not joining two equal pieces of rope but a small bit of rope knotted around a large rope section. As the magician’s hands grasp over the rope he pulls the knot off the longer thread and “voila” the rope is whole again. When the illusion is executed perfectly, every step looks real and it challenges our perceptions.

 

Even when the audience knows how the trick is done, the mind rarely changes its perceptions. “People take reality for granted,” explained Teller from the magic team Penn & teller. “Reality seems so simple. We just open our eyes and there it is. But that doesn’t mean it is simple.”

Magic is a fraud of perception confusing and creating tension between what is and what seems to be. Our brains don’t see everything—our brains only process 40% of the information that is gathered by our senses. Our senses gather only a minute fraction of the information that in the reality in front of us. To make sense of it all, our brain creates shortcuts. We cognize constructions and rationalizations: this creates definitions of what is and what is not.

Magicians capitalize on those rules. “Every time you perform a magic trick, you’re engaging in experimental psychology,” Teller says. “If the audience asks, ‘How the hell did he do that?’ then the experiment was successful. I’ve exploited the efficiencies of your mind.”

Even when the mind is aware it is being deceived the conditioning of our reality is so strong that our intellect argues with our instinctive habits and responses. It is only possible to break through our habitual conditions of “what is” reality by investigating and reverse-engineering the rationalizations, deceptions and delusions.

The Buddha said, “ignorance is the leader in the attainment of unskillful qualities, followed by a lack of conscience and lack of concern. Immersed in ignorance, wrong view arises. In wrong view, wrong resolve arises. In wrong resolve, wrong speech arises, thus follows wrong action, wrong livelihood, wrong effort, wrong mindfulness, and wrong concentration.

As a child, my grandmother had put in a wall of mirrors in her house against one wall. Not paying attention, I walked full-force and straight into the wall. Who hasn’t walked into a glass door at least once in their life? We have all smashed our noses at some point, because our perceptions are often habituated and much of what we do in life is on cruise control. There is just too much information in our daily lives to be cognize every detail in every moment. We expect the world to react in a predictable way and are surprised when it doesn’t. “Bam!” We end up with our noses turned sideways wondering how we could have been so foolish not to see the door knob or ourselves in the mirror: details that become obvious after the fact.

The Buddha said, “From ignorance comes fabrications. From fabrications comes sense-awareness, name & form, the senses, contact, feeling (or value impressions), craving, clinging and the arising and passing all things.”

This is the dependent condition of who we are. All suffering exists because we exist. With the condition of birth, we suffer pains, discontentment, aging, sorrow, illness and death. Not just with the gross reality of our lives as a whole process, but as an infinite series of processes. From ignorance we form delusions of the way things are, we create opinions and cravings and eventually opinions and emotions about things. The arising of anger, love, sorrow, etc. all arise form their own dependent originations.

If you had asked a friend to give you a ride and they are late, what arises? Not knowing what happens we start to create the stories: he forgot, he blew me off, he is in the wrong place, he is in an accident, etc. Each story that runs through our head gives rise to different conclusions and emotions. Each is validated and fed by our own ego. And when our friend finally arrives, we still cling to stresses and frustrations created by our imaginations.

Without a proper foundation of how to recognize the arising and passing of phenomena, we continue to unmindfully live on “cruise control” in many aspects of our lives, which affect our overall ignorance of perception. We assume the door is open and do not look to see if it is a glass door and inevitably we find ourselves a painful reminder that life is not what is seems.

And even at that point of awareness, we may not be able to overcome our conditioning. Some of our paradigms and constructs of the mind are so rooted within us, that they seem integral to who we are. We know that what we see is reality, so we cannot resolve the conflict of our perception with our intellect when we see a magic trick in front of us: even when we KNOW it is an illusion.

The Buddha said, “There are three taints: the taint of sensual desire, the taint of being and the taint of ignorance. However, it is the taint of ignorance that all other taints follow.” With the cessation of ignorance, there is right view and understanding.

Ignorance is the source of the three poisons: hate, greed and delusion. Without an understanding of what is and what is not, we develop false relationships with the phenomena around us. We crave for some phenomena and reject others. With ignorance we are deluded into thinking that our conditioning created by habits and false view is true reality. However, when we understand suffering, the cause of suffering, and the practices to end suffering; we deconstruct the conditioned world we live in and start living in an unconditioned reality of wisdom and right view.

This isn’t as difficult as it seems. When the secrets of a magic trick are revealed, it is often amazing how simple they are, how blind our minds have become and how willingly gullible the universe is to its own constructed reality.

Ajahn Brahm said, “Buddhism is different than most other religions because it never asks us to make the facts match the dhamma. The dhamma must always match the truth or it is not dhamma.”

The world is a magical place, full of illusions and misdirections, rationalizations and delusions. It is through Buddhist practice that we develop the skills to exist beyond all of that.